Exercises
Okay, so you've read the posts above, and you're ready to get started with the exercises. Great!
For this week's lesson, your mission is to go out into any setting where there are a large amount of people, and practice establishing eye contact, as well as to approach strangers with a simple "Hi" or "Hello." Here are the specifics...
Exercise 1
In two separate outings, each lasting one hour in length, you will go about establishing eye contact with strangers.
A fun way to go about doing this is to walk around in a mall or in a park and look people directly in the eyes as they are walking towards you. You will find that most people will not look at you in the eyes, but for those who do look you in the eye, you will want to practice looking in their eyes at least one second longer than they look into yours, this denotes confidence. To create the impression that you are friendly and approachable, you will want to match the eye contact with a genuine smile.
You can practice eye contact on just about anyone you see, male or female, young or old. But since the eventual goal of this Boot Camp is to acquire women, you will want to spend at least some of your time establishing eye contact with attractive girls.
Exercise 2
A confident person has no problem saying Hi to a stranger, and since the first part of this Boot Camp is geared toward building confidence, the goal of this exercise is to go around and say Hi or Hello to a total of 50 strangers during this week. Again, you can say Hi to any person you see, but since eventually your goal will be to get girls, you will want to practice saying Hi to attractive girls. Also, when greeting strangers, practice doing so with a smile and have fun.
And to save time, feel free to combine exercises 1 and 2 together, so that you can go about greeting
your 50 strangers during your eye contact outings (e.g. Establish eye contact, smile, and say Hi when
you are within speaking range).
After completing this exercise (no later than April 28 - one week from today), post your results on the
response thread (link at the top of the lesson). Share with the rest of us anything interesting that
happened, and what emotions you may have felt (excitement, nervousness, joy, etc.), as well as what
you thought of this first lesson.
Good luck recruits!
Giacomo posted to sosuave.com
Hello Guys!!!
I´m in this BC too... I´m very enthusiastical about following the DJ BC to improve my DJ skills, although I´ve been sarging for more less one year, alone or with wings.
I´ve started my 1st week on this monday. I triet eye contact with some HBs, but I couldn´t complete the sequence "getting eye contact - smiling - saying hi", because people usually don´t look at somelse´s eyes usually, I think. That´s why, in my opinion, it´s easier to accomplish my goal simply approaching and saying something, like a joke, some comment and so on. But I will try till i get it entirely.
On monday, I started convos with 4 HBs in the gym, simply making some C&F comments about the funny ways they´re doing the exercises. For example, in one situation, I commented the the HB was almost sleeping and she´d better drinking some stimulant drink. I´ve got good reactions in those situations.
On the street, I tried to approach a moving target, saying her a "hello", but it didn´t work. No problem.
At night, in the way home, on the subway, I started a convo with 2 Hbs (7), saying something about the weather, or the crowds of people on the subway, or the Pan American Games, anything. I was so inspirated that, since yestarday ´till now, I have done convos with 10 Hbs (from 7 to 8). The most, on the subway, or on the street, coming back home. Today in the morning, I knew 2 new HB neighbors, one of them got results.
The best part of the story is that on Monday I knew the neighbor HB that lives in my floor. than me. I introduced myself and offered help, because she was cleaning the house. While doing it, we talked a lot about her favorites favorite songs, sports and another habits. I invited her to have a dinner with me next to the beach. During the dinner, I read her palm and made cold reading about her personality, using astrology and psychology. I was too cocky and fun, and she said lots of times that I was a kind ok funny crazy guy.
When we returned home, she invited me to come in her house, and we listened brazilian songs for quite a hour. I felt a good vibe in the air and started asking her about the roles of a good neighbourhood. After puting some ice-cream in her mouth, I said the it was romantic and If it was allowed between good neighbours. She smiled and said no problem. So, I had the courage of kiss her...
We started foreplaying for a couple of hours, and I invited her to come to my house and watch tv. After some talk, we continue the previous foreplay, but she refused to go on till ****. After trying a little, I deserved and slept by her side.
Early on tuesday the morning, we continue foreplaying, but this time we went till the end. **** close with my HB neighbor!!! The first of my new home (I lived there since last saturday!hehe).
That morning, I knew another HB neighbor, and started a convo with her in the elevator, about the living in the city. After, on the street, I said "hi" to some Hbs, and started convo with 2 Hbs on the gym.
I approached more eight HBs during the day, in different places. I started a convo with a HB 7 in the subway (yeah, again), and she talked me a lot about her ex-boyfriend. I felt that was easy to continue and try to seduce her, but I limited me to get her phone number after all. I opener another girl in the way to the gym, offering her, cocky and funny, to be her bodyguard on the street. Again, in the way back home, I talked with another girl (a 6) about weather... not interesting talking, so I wasn´t inspirated to go ahead.
I don´t remember all the approachs, but I´m report the most significant ones. Today, for example, I said "hi" to more two girls (without answer or smiles), but I could open a HB (8) during the lunch. She was alone in the restaurant, and I was with my friends, so I thought it would better wait for a better opportunity to approach. That happened while paying the bill, because I was next to her and said here that I´d rather eating with friends than alone, but sometimes it´s necessary time to think...rs She said "wow, you´re paying attention on me a lot, so", and I repplied, "Not so, but I perceived how lonely you was...hehe. But, no problem, I can have a lunch with you next time". She answered, smiling: "No, thanks, I´me married". "No problem", I said. But, me friends were going, so did I.
Well, I will get the subway again coming back home, so I will try to do more approaches.
Bootcamp Progress:
Hi´s:5
Convos:20
Eye Contact:5
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